CONTROL THE ANGER IN YOUR PARTNER

       

Hey friends! Welcome back to my blog. Today, I'm dealing with interpersonal communication and would be discussing how you can control the anger in yourself and especially in ur husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, and even your friend.


As they say, anger is the condition where the tongue works faster than the mind. I know you're aware of the ripple effects of anger today in relationships but if you don't, then you are possibly living under d rock. In short, inside the rock. Okay, I'm just gonna give two (2) simple techniques in which u can make ur partner calm down.

1. The tone of your voice: Research done by the Speech Research Unit of Kenyon College "proved that when a person is shouted at, he simply cannot help but shout back, even when he cannot see the speaker."__Les Giblin 1956. The fact about this test Is that when one shouts, the individual on the receiving end cannot help being influenced by the tone of the speaker which makes them shout back either in defence or in apology.


2. The loudness of ur voice: It does not matter whether you talk loudly because you are angry or you are angry that is why u talk loudly. It's like asking which comes first, the egg or the chicken. One thing is certain. The louder you talk, the angrier u become. According to psychology, if you keep your voice soft you will not become angry. Our Holy book also reckons with this " A soft answer turns away wrath"__Proverbs 15:1.

Knowing this, you can control ur spouse's anger to an amazing degree. When u find yourself in that heated and explosive situation dat seems to get out of hand at almost any moment, deliberately lower the tone of your voice and keep it soft. He/she cannot be angry as long as the voice is pitched in a soft tone.

So you ladies with coconut head still enjoying that physically abusive relationship, why not spare yourselves some punches by applying these simple psychological techniques?

NOTE :
If u wait until ur partner becomes angry, it won't work. You can simply prevent anger before it reaches with these techniques.
So friends! See u next time. 

Bye for now!!!
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